Last weekend I finally celebrated my 40th Birthday. I am unsure why but I felt like I had been waiting forever for this day, and I was sick of being in my 30s!! I had a great time, saw Fatboy Slim in a venue down in Bournemouth and spend the time with my eldest child aged 20.

Being a parent carer means my down time is very limited. But it is essential. And I need to take time out for myself when I can. Spending time with my older two children is often difficult because Charlie’s needs are so severe at times that I struggle to balance 4 people (myself included) a job, a home, 2 dogs and a guinea pig! Sometimes, life can be overwhelming and I absolutely drop the ball sometimes.

Being away this weekend, reinforced in me the need to take care of myself and spend time with my other children when I can. Charlie was absolutely fine. He stayed with his dad, and we have finally agreed that he will take Charlie for 2 nights next month. Wow! This is definitely progress for us! It has definitely taken it’s time to reach this level, but I am here for it.

Happy 40th to me!

Georgina